Dads Deserve Better: How to Fight for Your Rights as a Father

No matter how much times changes, there’s one thing that remains true: fathers have always played an essential role in their children’s lives. Unfortunately, there are still many mothers who try to control visitation schedules and make it difficult for dads to see their kids. If you’re a father who feels like you’re being pushed out of your child’s life, you need to know that you have rights—and there are law firms who can help you fight for them.

Evidence is Key

Child custody battles are some of the most difficult legal cases to win. But if you have a good lawyer on your side and you’re armed with the right evidence, you stand a much better chance of success. The first step is to start gathering documentation that shows you’re an involved, loving father. This can include things like birth certificates (if you’re listed as the father), school documents showing that you attend your child’s events and meetings, text messages and emails exchange between you and your child, and anything else that can prove your child loves and wants a relationship with you.

Once you have this documentation, reach out to a law firm that specializes in family law. They’ll be able to review your case and let you know what your best course of action is. In some cases, it may be possible to reach an out-of-court settlement with the child’s mother. But if not, be prepared to go to trial. It’s important to remember that even if the odds seem stacked against you, fathers do win these kinds of cases—so don’t give up hope.

If you’re a dad who feels like your rights are being violated by a controlling mother, know that you’re not alone—and there is something you can do about it. By working with an experienced law firm and gathering evidence of your involvement in your child’s life, you put yourself in a much better position to win custody of your child or at least get more reasonable visitation rights. So don’t give up; fight for what’s rightfully yours.

Steven Ibarra